The experiences of Retreat participants themselves gave particular meaning to this discussion. Among them were couples who met and started families after injury, during the difficult period of treatment and recovery. Their stories demonstrate another important dimension of rehabilitation: returning to active life is not only about medical treatment, independent living skills, or employment. It is also about the opportunity to build close relationships, fall in love, start a family, and plan for the future.
An equally important part of the Retreat was what happened outside the formal discussions: the swimming pool, sauna, the sea, tandem cycling, partner dancing, evening conversations, songs, and laughter. For some, it was their first bicycle ride or first swim after being injured; one participant danced a waltz with her husband for the first time. For veterans and their loved ones, it was also an opportunity to take a few days away from hospitals, paperwork, and everyday responsibilities.
The team gained new experiences as well: its members tried navigating with a white cane and running blindfolded with a guide.
On the final day, participants most often spoke about support, new connections, new experiences, and a sense of community. One participant summed it up: “I think we made it work. We should not stop here. We need to stay together and keep sharing our experiences”.